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                               Shoga's Palace!                                This unnecessary Anger By Women Happy New Year My People! It's so good to be here and of cos, welcome to Shoga's segment now named, Shoga's Palace . Don't ask me about the change of name but I can tell you about the new concept behind this. I am the King in this palace and you all are my Chiefs. We are going to talk about so many issues pertaining Relationships and how Women behave in this century. I am sure you know you are in for a swell time. So, let's dig it now. Every man can relate with this topic and this is, T he way Women get mad when things aren't working their way . Before Christmas, I spoke with bae and asked her to make plans on what she wants to do and how she wants to go about it, in the usual manner, She said, she hasn't made her mind yet. Okay, I said. We forgot about the whole thing until I asked again, what are your plans and how do we go about it. Sh

                   Tales of a Working  Mom                                       No Baby Till Later This new year I decided to talk to Mr Husband about the struggles I have been through and still going through as a working mom. I have two kids and husband is thinking about pregnancy, don't let me deceive you, I am not doing anything. I am not ready to go through that route at all. I see the way he looks and his actions, he is not happy about it but I cannot stress myself. I work and take care of the kids all alone, my maid has left and getting a maid now is very tedious. We have not set the records straight so we are not having a deal. Don't tell me about being gentle, I am really very gentle about this but I cannot kill myself for myself. You might think that I am being ungrateful because some peeps want to me in my shoes, my dear, marriage isn't a trophy and trust me, you wouldn't want to be in my shoes. The stress is killing me. The kids are resuming school this

                                                     Self pity isn't the answer. 2017 Struggles { That Adejoke's Story} The struggles were too much for her to bear alone, she wanted her story to change but as much as she tried, nothing was happening. She could move no further. She decided to try her hands on some buying and selling but that wasn't enough though it gave her money to fund a lot of things. Money came through but she wasn't happy. 'Would you try this one or try that?' she laid her hands on every possible thing she could find. 'I don't want to be seen as an unserious person, I know where my mates are at least if she doesn't remind herself, some people will remind her or social media will remind her' Dara is in America on scholarship, Nkechi works with a Multinational company, Fumi is a technocrat and she is earning lots of money'. Adejoke what is happening?   That was what her Bestie asked her when she came over. At least,

                                       2017 Struggles...'Adejoke's {Me} Story' Happy New Year my readers, It's so great to see a New Year and I know it's going to be a great phase for you all. Now, I am guilty for abandoning my writings and I assure you that this year is going to be very different, you will have more consistent juicy topics to engage in and also the board will become bigger as writers will come on board. It's going to be a magnificent 2018! You will enjoy this. So, let's start afresh this year. Before I begin to write, I want to share a story with you. This is the story that connects with almost everyone and even with me... This is going to be a better year and I know you will experience everything new, poise, and top notch! Adejoke had great plans when 2017 started off, she wrote her goals, she gave her stakes, she knew who to call and who to call on her board. She has read a lot, she has attended a lot of seminars and she was cert

              Shoga's Bae Most Women Have Met Their Husbands SideChicks  Dear Shoga and other men around the world,have you ever noticed how much a woman tries to understand the risks you guys take when it can be avoided? Have you ever wondered when a woman sees a man and asks do you really need to do that? Is it necessary to talk about it? Is it necessary to go for it? We love men that are daring, I mean, Daring on purpose not men that are Too Curious. Curiosity kills the Rabbit remember? Excuse me sir, why would you want to tamper with what doesn't have your label imprinted on it? why? So, if every man sees a woman that is very daring and decides to pursue her, how many men would have fell for the other woman? No wonder there are too many side chics in this world. The men go looking for them and fall prey and then, sister side chick will decide not to leave her land of refuge! Who caused it? The curious man. If you know nothing can spring up, leave the scene. I me

   Shoga                                We Know Those We Trash  Hey Guys,  It's good to be here again and Yes! I got the mails. Is That your bae for real? Is the corner going to be for Shoga and Bae? Yes! The corner is going to be for Shoga and bae. Shoga's bae replies to my talk and I reply to hers. Don't crush  on her dude, It's not easy managing a woman as strict as that. {I didn't write this part} ☺Okay! Let me go to my gist.  I read what Shoga's bae wrote about me and she said something about Good girls falling in Love with Bad boys and I am like, what makes a man,  A Man and what makes him Good or Bad ?  When a woman sees a man that is genuine she feels some kinda way, she thinks he is 'good'  especially if he is genuinely gentle and straightforward and when he is genuinely the opposite? They call him 'Bad'.  They {women} like rough men actually and most of the time they know they need to be 'roughened'  a bit. Have