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                                          LOVE PALAVA James met a girl that he eventually fell in love with. The going was good, he loved every bit of the relationship until something happened. She has actually been dating someone else alongside James., that someone was Dave her very first lover, she met James all of a sudden and the spark got in and she couldn't resist Dave. James caught the both of them unawares in her house like this: {flash back before the day he caught her with Dave}. James: Latonya, would you mind us going out tomorrow evening?             Latonya: Yes, i mind Dave, cos i will be so busy with my projects and proposals, why don't you let us make it next weekend?               James: If you are okay with it, why not. Next weekend it is. So, James was not too happy about it but he had no choice. James being bored decided to show up that evening at Latonya's house, and he caught her with Dave. Latonya:{stutters}: I, errr, I thought, I am sorry .     

                                         The Change. Lots of people complain about how hard the structure of the government is, how bad they go through things, its like everything bad has been downloaded into their system. Life is not going to be rosy, life is life because it comes with different task.You are the change you need, stop thinking like a loser. you have to start checking what you can offer, search that inner ability that God has given unto you to make the change you want. Step out of the closed doors and launch out.You can't keep wallowing in self pity, life doesn't applaud people who sit back and do nothing, it applauds the trail blazers. Turn whatever card life has given to you into a fortune, don't just accept anything.. Then, speak positive, Ask God for direction, a man can only see what he can see, but God sees beyond the sight of a man.Walk on your potentials and make the difference you want to see. You are the foundation of that great change. #stepurg

                  I pOuT There's a way you handle issues and you get the message through to the one involved or you let it go the other way round.You know, a lot of people want to counsel someone, talk about something but they do not know how to go about it. The first way to start is, know what you want to say... it helps very well. when you know how to pass your message, what the point is and what should not be picked, then you can pass the message across. You don't need to speak just because you can use the English language pretty well, sometimes, just admit that you can't handle it. That's integrity than opening your mouth to pass errors. I got a message recently form someone, telling me about her experience with a relative. A relative called her to speak about what her perception about the fashion business she's planning to venture in and this relative got the whole message off. "I know fashion nowadays is something big, you young ones feel fashion shoul

                                            Inadvertently. In life, certain things happen and we begin to question how stupid we were in allowing such happen. Humans are the most complex in attitude than animals... someone said, it is easier to control animals than humans. you know why? this is because we are intellectual beings and also, we exhibit our inner pride, consciously or unconsciously. That is why we feel we should also dominate, always be the one airing while others listen and some people do not want to listen, forgetting that we all can't speak at the same time. This inner pride and the untamed attitude in us has led to certain accidents that we regret.  For example, if as a friend, my close friend has hurt me and i do not love what has happened, instead of telling her and letting go of what happened, so that life continues, i will decide to 'lock up' and malice begins, then probably when she's in tire need of what is within my reach, she opts for something