Inadvertently.
In life, certain things happen and we begin to question how stupid we were in allowing such happen. Humans are the most complex in attitude than animals... someone said, it is easier to control animals than humans. you know why? this is because we are intellectual beings and also, we exhibit our inner pride, consciously or unconsciously. That is why we feel we should also dominate, always be the one airing while others listen and some people do not want to listen, forgetting that we all can't speak at the same time. This inner pride and the untamed attitude in us has led to certain accidents that we regret.  For example, if as a friend, my close friend has hurt me and i do not love what has happened, instead of telling her and letting go of what happened, so that life continues, i will decide to 'lock up' and malice begins, then probably when she's in tire need of what is within my reach, she opts for something else.... which could be really bad for her and i stay looking, being sorry for allowing such to get to that extent. A mistake that could have been adverted if only i aired my opinion.

Most of the issues we cause in our relationship,either with our spouse or friends are issues that would have been avoided if only we do not allow that 'pride' in us to overthrow our state of well being. Husbands and wives keep malice to the extent of letting an intruder get in the marriage and destroy what have been built just because of that 'pride' in us. colleagues and friends become so great enemies, just because of a little misunderstanding that could have been settled. We cause lots of accidents unconsciously because of the mindset of pulling back and keeping to your crown which is very wrong . For everyone to stay in a stable state of mind, we should learn to Avoid unnecessary mistakes which allows terrible accidents in our relationship. #teamcharacter,teamyou and i#