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                               Shoga's Palace!                                This unnecessary Anger By Women Happy New Year My People! It's so good to be here and of cos, welcome to Shoga's segment now named, Shoga's Palace . Don't ask me about the change of name but I can tell you about the new concept behind this. I am the King in this palace and you all are my Chiefs. We are going to talk about so many issues pertaining Relationships and how Women behave in this century. I am sure you know you are in for a swell time. So, let's dig it now. Every man can relate with this topic and this is, T he way Women get mad when things aren't working their way . Before Christmas, I spoke with bae and asked her to make plans on what she wants to do and how she wants to go about it, in the usual manner, She said, she hasn't made her mind yet. Okay, I said. We forgot about the whole thing until I asked again, what are your plans and how do we go about it. Sh

                   Tales of a Working  Mom                                       No Baby Till Later This new year I decided to talk to Mr Husband about the struggles I have been through and still going through as a working mom. I have two kids and husband is thinking about pregnancy, don't let me deceive you, I am not doing anything. I am not ready to go through that route at all. I see the way he looks and his actions, he is not happy about it but I cannot stress myself. I work and take care of the kids all alone, my maid has left and getting a maid now is very tedious. We have not set the records straight so we are not having a deal. Don't tell me about being gentle, I am really very gentle about this but I cannot kill myself for myself. You might think that I am being ungrateful because some peeps want to me in my shoes, my dear, marriage isn't a trophy and trust me, you wouldn't want to be in my shoes. The stress is killing me. The kids are resuming school this

                                                     Self pity isn't the answer. 2017 Struggles { That Adejoke's Story} The struggles were too much for her to bear alone, she wanted her story to change but as much as she tried, nothing was happening. She could move no further. She decided to try her hands on some buying and selling but that wasn't enough though it gave her money to fund a lot of things. Money came through but she wasn't happy. 'Would you try this one or try that?' she laid her hands on every possible thing she could find. 'I don't want to be seen as an unserious person, I know where my mates are at least if she doesn't remind herself, some people will remind her or social media will remind her' Dara is in America on scholarship, Nkechi works with a Multinational company, Fumi is a technocrat and she is earning lots of money'. Adejoke what is happening?   That was what her Bestie asked her when she came over. At least,