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Simple Yes Or No.
we can all remember this song by the Afro beat legend, even though i am seeing it through another perspective.The act of wooing a lady. hmmmmmm....nice right? yeah. I decided to imagine the mind of a gentleman when asking a lady out for a relationship and it takes the lady donkey yearssssss to reply this simple question, please will you date me? Then the lady goes on to say,,,errrr... i will think about it even though most times, you've the answer right there. Now, the gentleman waits for perhaps 6months, 1year, or more for that simple answer. I know the ladies want to flex their muscles, do the 'hard to get' thing but please do take it easy

If you know that you have the answer right there, just go ahead and say it, don't keep unnecessary suspense, and if you want to think about it, please do, and make your conclusion on time. Maturity should come with certain, simple ease than complexities that aren't called for. i am not saying you should say yes immediately, but when asked the simple question make your reply as quick as possible. Holding back for long doesn't make the relationship work out, if its gonna work, fine and if not, it isn't. The question is simple...It's just a polar question....just fill it in and don't make it an essay.lol.
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