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Mr Right?
The fantasy of moving up and moving on with the right man is so into our system that we believe it can happen in the twinkling of an eye... Well, to some people it does and to others? Nope. some people just have to keep searching and searching and the best would have been not loving at all. But some, they search and in the process love and unfortunately love the wrong person. So, they keep toiling with their heart till they eventually meet this person. My question for the male folks is this... immediately you knew she isn't the one that you would want to stay?... why give the Green light like she is? And then she starts keeping in a lot to make it work when you knew it wouldn't be the forever thing?

Then suddenly everything leaves just like that? she is broken, shattered and then starts all over from the scratch... You might know this or you might think it's irrational, but women have this optimistic mindset in everything they do... especially when it comes to love. So, when it doesn't work out well, she feels there's something wrong with her, probably she didn't do it well whereas,,, Mr XyZ knew from the beginning that He came to play not to love. So, how then do we know who is there to Play, Love and stay? How easy is it getting this right person without being too broken and too drained of the power to Love?

follow me closely on this.... see ya nextweek.

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