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Mr Right?
continued from last Thursday's edition,,,,

What are the criteria we have on ground when searching for the right person? It's not about the looks my dear, not even about the money or the fame, what is important is how God-fearing the man is, and if he is ready to hold strong to a life time commitment. The truth is, not every man is ready for a life time commitment, some men just want a fling until they are ready, and if you fall prey to such a man, with the life time ideology in your head? you will end up crying over him.

I know people say going into a relationship with no expectation is good so that when anything happens., it wouldn't hurt much. But the truth is, this might sound so okay for the man, but the woman? it doesn't. A woman is fashioned in a way that she puts her heart into anything and whatever she is doing, so this ideology is very difficult to follow. I mean, why enter a bus with no destination? It doesn't make sense. So, the first thing you must know when searching for this 'right dude' is knowing what and where you want this to end and please do not give the impression that you are desperate for anything when you meet him.

You could just be friends which is very well good, and this friendship should be honest, open and not just a fun time for the both of you. Then, you buy into his ideology gradually and juxtapose if it works with yours... Mind you, some men can pretend their way through... So, how do you manage this situation and avoid it?

#nextweek#

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