Mr Right?

It's surprising how that feeling you had when you met him could be thrown away within a twinkling of an eye. It is not new that the conscious effort most men put in, when trying to win a woman's  heart is usually removed or lowered when they finally hit the Heart. One thing is important if you don't constantly show her that you love her, she will drive off, a woman needs constant assurance.

 Then, i wonder what the Mr right criteria is? I have heard lots of adults say when you see your man you will know, but then ask a lot of ladies out there, most of the broken relationships they have had, the men looked too Original to be False. The reason we get the hurt i think, is because most of us are seemingly too flexible at heart. We fall in love too easily... That's a story for another day but this mystery of getting Mr right in this 21st century when most men want to play around, when most of them feel they can't be serious until a particular time is annoying.

Life is not a Hollywood romance movie or a romance novel but life is reality and the earlier we face this reality the better. Basically, most of the ladies have the 'fantasy' Mr right in their heads and this sometimes makes them see the wrong as right. That he is tall, dark and handsome, has the finishing line to every starting word doesn't make him perfect. Look in between to see the necessary things and the fact is, do you even know the necessary things?

That is the issue, knowing what is necessary and what is not necessary at a particular time is very important. The dream of getting the right man is cool but what is your own definition of the right man? Those things in your head are they really the cogent things when searching for a good relationship or they are just what i will call..'by-pass'? #the conversation continues nextweek#