Marry me with 10naira.
When i hear some people talk about what marriage is and their perspective to what it should be like, sometimes i wonder and ponder on what the next generation would hold. Marriage is not a book that should be torn or thrown out, it is a longtime institution according to what the Holybook permits. It is a forever thing! Now, what do you do in preparing for marriage? I hear you speak about purpose and maturity, Yes, You are right it is very necessary but one thing you should not leave out is the Financial aspect of marriage.
I have heard some people talk as if money isn't important in marriage, you hear people talk about ridiculous scenario because they want to preach to the lady that money isn't important. My question is, how does the man himself feels when he's got nothing tangible to give? There's time for everything if you want to get married and nuture a home, make sure you are prepared in every angle towards making a Home.
How could you be earning something as low as 10thousand naira and think you want to settle down? My dear, go work and confidently build something tangible for yourself. The father of humans in the bible was busy working when God made him a woman to help with this work. Let's not promote mediocrity and laziness, before you move a pace be sure that you are ready to move on to the next level... Take note, i am not saying you should have the whole world, what i am saying is that you should be able to fend for yourself pretty well and then you can add a bae to it.
There is this confidence you have when you know that you are capable of filling a hole with no sweat. It's not about looking for a woman who will bear your responsibility right now, be sure that you can bear it even without the woman and the woman can only offer a token out of love and not out of neccessity.
You cannot marry with 10naira in the 21st century.... You can only Buy Satchet water with it.!
When i hear some people talk about what marriage is and their perspective to what it should be like, sometimes i wonder and ponder on what the next generation would hold. Marriage is not a book that should be torn or thrown out, it is a longtime institution according to what the Holybook permits. It is a forever thing! Now, what do you do in preparing for marriage? I hear you speak about purpose and maturity, Yes, You are right it is very necessary but one thing you should not leave out is the Financial aspect of marriage.
I have heard some people talk as if money isn't important in marriage, you hear people talk about ridiculous scenario because they want to preach to the lady that money isn't important. My question is, how does the man himself feels when he's got nothing tangible to give? There's time for everything if you want to get married and nuture a home, make sure you are prepared in every angle towards making a Home.
There is this confidence you have when you know that you are capable of filling a hole with no sweat. It's not about looking for a woman who will bear your responsibility right now, be sure that you can bear it even without the woman and the woman can only offer a token out of love and not out of neccessity.
You cannot marry with 10naira in the 21st century.... You can only Buy Satchet water with it.!
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