Uncertainty...{Continued from the previous Post}
When Dad took ill, it wasn't pleasant at all. It was like a full grown child becoming a babe again. It was really tough and like a funny word that says, ''you didn't see that coming". Who would see such a horrible phase coming? No one imagined that such would take turn like that. Daddy being a strongman, tried to make sure that he recovered early enough and on our end, we didn't relent at all. Medically we tried our best and spiritually we gave the shot but all is well that ends well no matter how it ends i Guess...
There is a saying that, The one who caters for the Sick is More sick than The Sick. That was the case, we were all sick for 7years. Daddy was blessed with a good, faithful and beautiful wife who stayed all through. You know, she paused her life for seven years for a man she loved. She stayed through and became all in one and the Zeal she's got was incomparable.
I sometimes ruminate that strength and Just feel i may not be as strong as my Mother because typically speaking when you say one is Strong, She is the Noun for that! So, The house stayed off like that with everyone looking and hoping that Daddy will Heal someday, This affected somehow, because as the first child I had to pick up my burden and that of my siblings... If I don't? Who will?
His drugs cost a lot and we just had to squeeze our lives. No more left overs, No more "good-life" of Daddy got our back, It was now the matter of fending and catering for yourself because we were investing in his health. What do we do? Of course, no one wants to hear the story of what is happening in your home, because you are not the first. So, we laid off, smiled like we've never did before and laugh hard even the middle of the hard crisis because we believed that everything will be fine.
It's the Least we can do for the Sick and the desire to work Verrrryyy Harrrd came! We all grew up too early because we were faced with Bones when we should be taking milk. We became adults at a tender age and believe me, we were Cooked Adults!
#Followclosely
#Journey to Two, Four
When Dad took ill, it wasn't pleasant at all. It was like a full grown child becoming a babe again. It was really tough and like a funny word that says, ''you didn't see that coming". Who would see such a horrible phase coming? No one imagined that such would take turn like that. Daddy being a strongman, tried to make sure that he recovered early enough and on our end, we didn't relent at all. Medically we tried our best and spiritually we gave the shot but all is well that ends well no matter how it ends i Guess...
There is a saying that, The one who caters for the Sick is More sick than The Sick. That was the case, we were all sick for 7years. Daddy was blessed with a good, faithful and beautiful wife who stayed all through. You know, she paused her life for seven years for a man she loved. She stayed through and became all in one and the Zeal she's got was incomparable.
I sometimes ruminate that strength and Just feel i may not be as strong as my Mother because typically speaking when you say one is Strong, She is the Noun for that! So, The house stayed off like that with everyone looking and hoping that Daddy will Heal someday, This affected somehow, because as the first child I had to pick up my burden and that of my siblings... If I don't? Who will?
It's the Least we can do for the Sick and the desire to work Verrrryyy Harrrd came! We all grew up too early because we were faced with Bones when we should be taking milk. We became adults at a tender age and believe me, we were Cooked Adults!
#Followclosely
#Journey to Two, Four
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