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                    The One?

{I sat on my own o... as lots of Nigerians will say}. I sat trying get the muse needed for the next writeup and some other criical  things i wanted to embark on. This is what some people will call sorting Inspiration. Yeah, I really was sorting that. My notepad at hand, handbag beside and full concentration at gear then this youngman walked up to me, muttered something like Goodafternoon but i didn't give him the air. Then, he tapped me and said Goodafternoon, I replied with a smile and moved back at my focus.  He sat beside me muttering something but i didnt give an ear because I wasn't interested. Then he tapped me.

I gave him the look and asked., Please do you have a problem?. He was shocked at my word, i saw it on his face but this time around, i waited for his reply. He said No, in a gentle voice."Sister, I don't have a problem, I just want to keep your company". I smiled and said Thank you but No, Thanks i am busy with something and i turned away. You don't look busy... This time around i couldn't keep my anger. I blurted out, "I don't look busy? Really? I am here trying to tell everyone to keep my company right? Here is my notepad, Common sense should tell you that i am doing something. I am here to get a worth not a useless talk and thank you because you have suddenly become my Topic.



 
He was shocked, very shocked he couldn't say a word he just walked away quietly. I didn't mean to hurt him but it was the truth. He just couldn't use his discretion and now mummy thinks he might be The One! Of all illustration to give.... Then the banter starts...
"My dear, don't you think you are being harsh on guys? You see, Just because i told her about this particular guy, she has generalized. I smiled at her, patiently waiting to reach the end of this conversation. Guess what, I realized that this kinda talk wouldn't finish soon, so i made a way for me


"Mummy, there's no harshness in this, he was just insensitive. My man will understand the moments especially where it concerns me. I didn't stop there, i decided to take it to the spiritual box, My Man will Discern and understand the Times"... Are you laughing? Please don't. I just had to make this way out of this talk.  She responded well, assimilating all i said and then she replied saying, You know you will be Twenty... Next year, infact I got married at your present age and then, I made My Man understand My moments... He is Only Human.
She stood up and went inside. I was left with this Look. Even though i wished that i didn't tell her the story of the Insensitive Guy. This is just what you get when you tell your mother of a guy and she knows you've got None.

I am sure lots of Ladies can relate with this

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