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That Poverty Mentality

The moment you chose your path in life; what you want to do to affect people positively, that moment you start making progress with the challenge of how well you can do it and make it great. There is something about finding Help to people's problem, it makes you the problem so that you can envisage the solution.

Lots of people think it's all about how well you get from the others and that's why they choke everypath of the relationship they are into. Have you ever been friends with someone who doesn't know how to give something no matter how little it is.

Should I call it the 'fear of giving or just pure act of stinginess'.

When you relate with people who find it difficult to give something, your comnfortability level in that relationship is drained and will make you a mess.

All they care about is what they intend to receive from you. That is the highest level of poverty mentality. Perhaps some of them do not know that there is a part of the story that is called ''The End''.

There is an end to everything with a beginning. You should never be a friend because of what you want to get but because of what you intend to offer. What is your worth in that relationship? Will you be missed appropriately according to virtues or according to the parasitic manner you exhibited?

Life is more than the Theory of give and Take. Some people just want to acquire it all but they have nothing of worth to give out. When you put too much in a stagnant water, it begins to smell. It becomes irritating. Perhaps the reason why some people never meet or make good friends is because of that appaling character in them.

Be of value everyday, everytime and anywhere. Don't be a parasite.

''Don't me a Give Me Secretary.''

''Give me food, Give me Money, Give a Car, Give me shoes, Give me Hair, Give me phones, Give me sex''.

Really, what can you offer? How far can you go without your gifts? How far can you go with nobody around you to see you through?

Before you complain or want something tangible from anybody, Make sure You are Of Value.

Your value places you higher than your Gifts and It makes the Gifts call when you Do not even Ask

Happy new week!

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