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                             Theme for the month : What's it with these ladies?

Okay, it's been a while yeah, and I have missed you all. I hope the feeling is mutual {lol}.

So, I am breaking down my talk and this month I am talking about what women do that makes it difficult for gentlemen to relate. Later on, they will say  they are simple, it's a matter of understanding. Please, how do we understand them? I think we need a textbook written on women... Like understanding mathematics, we need understanding women and I am sure it will come in different volumes. Okay! I heard that. Shoga, stop and go straight to the point.



This is the point : Why do  women feel so bad when you tell them that they have an unhealthy skin? or Unfresh skin especially when that aspect is the face? A friend of mine fought with a girl he really wanted to date just because he told her that, she's got lots of pimples on her face and she should try to do something about it.

Please, what's wrong about this statement? It's the truth and it's obvious why pick a fight over what is obviously the truth and then when I asked a lady why that lady got angry she said, the man is insensitive. Oh Boy! Because I said, you have pimples I am insensitive? She later said, there's a whole lot women face when having skin disorder especially with acne, she knows, she's treating it you don't have to tell her again it's depressing...

wow! I can't relate. If you don't say the truth they will accuse you of forming to be too nice and now, you are insensitive. What if he had bought something to help her clear it off? Would that be bad? If he had suggested something for her to use would that be wrong?

And If I go about saying I want a fine girl with no spots or pimples the spotless kinda girl like Jesus wants a spotless church, they will say it's beyond the physical...

What's it with these ladies sef?

#dropspen
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