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                                       She can't cook.

Welcome to the stand of the good-bad guy. Lol. I am glad to have you here. I have been seeing guys complain about women who don't know how to cook. She cannot cook good food. Excuse me sir, this is my question, like how many days did you date her for before marrying her? If she cannot cook and you married her that means something happened. Perhaps, you knew and still went on with the Love and maybe you wanted to teach her how to cook in marriage or you dated her for 14 days.

I cannot  put it together when men say they didn't know that their wives doesn't know how to cook. Haha! In this Lagos? Okay! for our non- African audience cooking might not be a big deal for you all but for us in Africa and Nigeria most especially, cooking is a big deal. There's that satisfaction a man gets when he knows his wife can cook even though there are different degrees. {In other news, I am looking for a good Igbo or Akwa-Ibom girl to marry, I learnt they can feed a man well. I am tired of the routinal Yoruba soups. I just hate routines.} Back to the point. Hey! Guy, how will you fall my hand like that in public saying, you didn't know she doesn't cook.
Didn't you call her to the house for a hangout? Didn't you buy foodstuffs testing to see if she can cook or not? Didn't you go to her house? In fact, didn't you cook food for her playing the game of you will be the one to do the next one kinda thing? Were you that dumb or you choosed to be stupid about it? Common Bro! when a woman can cook, you will know. she won't be big on eateries. she might like to be spoilt but there's something about a woman or women who can cook, they will just say something about not wasting money outside when it can be done inside.

 They will know how to clear the kitchen. Now, there's a difference between the one that can cook and the one that enjoys cooking. The one that enjoys cooking can buy herself a bed in the kitchen but the one that can cook but doesn't enjoy cooking will only cook when it's necessary. 

She won't be big on cooking but she will make you know she can cook. Now, because she doesn't speak about food doesn't mean she doesn't know how to cook but if she cannot cook at all, you will also know my dude.
She will never bring up a topic on food and if she does, she will talk about a friend making it, or maybe she made noodles or ordered for the food. You will just be able to discern about her cooking skills if not totally but to an extent. 

Though, if you are married to a woman that cannot cook, it's not the end of the world. Just teach her if you can cook or get her on Youtube. She will learn if she wants to. I just feel you choosed to be dumb. You think going out to eat will always work in Nigeria, for a home grown man? You have seen the brighter side of the world already I don't need to talk about it. Lool. There's more to dating a woman than hangouts in the cinemas or pizza lunch! Inspect her well because that's what they do to us also. They check us too much!

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