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                       Dude, Keep Wooing her.

I know I have lashed at the ladies very well but this time let's talk dudes. I know, we know, basically nothing about these women but that doesn't mean we have to be complacent and nonchalant about their needs. They are unique, that's no news and we must work at matching up to them in the best way we can. You see, the process you went through in  wooing her, what inspired it? What made you decide to step up each wooing technique at every point in time.

 Those times she needed something and by just mentioning it, you will answer her call what happened after she said Yes! What happened to the sweet little things you did? What happened to going out on dates and seeing movies? Recession? Weell,,,,,, we are out of it now so find something else. The psychic of the women we have is tolerably disastrous. That woman you think is understanding, tolerant and patient the day, the very day she will turn the table for you? Even a professional DJ will dance to the music.
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Learn to appreciate her every single time. Let me share a story with you. A friend of mine had one very good girl, a verryyyyyyyy goooood, brilliant and beautiful girl back then. She was the typical example of a patient and understanding girlfriend in fact you can call her a wife material but he lost her to another man. Dude, If you are lucky to have  a bae that doesn't demand anything from you, then, you should know that it's not because she's stupid it's because she sees you as a man and she wants you to man-Up! This dude took her for a ride, she never asked him for anything, she never shared her problems with him because she knows he has nothing to offer and my dude was feeling fly. Instead of him to understand that this is more of a deep responsibility he kept sharing how proud he was to have her. She doesn't even ask for recharge card! he said. Damn! ya stupid man. Ask her if she doesn't ask and when she says, she's good, don't mind her. Do what you should do that's how real men roll.
Then, one day, she travelled to Abuja for a month and being a good girl, she came home and broke the relationship with my friend and guess what she said... I deserve more than I have. I don't deserve a man who thinks my gentility is stupidity. I am moving on to a man that appreciates every good traits in me. She left and never came back and guess what? she's married! If you don't keep spicing things up no matter how small, You will lose her. Be comfortable yeah, But don't be too comfortable with a woman she can turn the table.

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