Shoga
                               We Know Those We Trash


 Hey Guys, 

It's good to be here again and Yes! I got the mails. Is That your bae for real? Is the corner going to be for Shoga and Bae? Yes! The corner is going to be for Shoga and bae. Shoga's bae replies to my talk and I reply to hers. Don't crush  on her dude, It's not easy managing a woman as strict as that. {I didn't write this part} ☺Okay! Let me go to my gist.

 I read what Shoga's bae wrote about me and she said something about Good girls falling in Love with Bad boys and I am like, what makes a man, A Man and what makes him Good or Bad?  When a woman sees a man that is genuine she feels some kinda way, she thinks he is 'good' especially if he is genuinely gentle and straightforward and when he is genuinely the opposite? They call him 'Bad'. 

They {women} like rough men actually and most of the time they know they need to be 'roughened' a bit. Have you met a very nice girl that wants a learner to be her husband? she tells you, I want him to teach me... They know that the 'roughs' scores more {whatever that means, I don't know
} but that is not the essence of why I am writing back though, this is just a little digression.

If you read the last story of my escapade with Zion you will understand that I had no intention to do anything bad but I was only curious and that's one thing about men. We are curious beings, we want to know more. We want to ask questions , we love to be dared and to seek into our inner strengths. Does it backfires? Yes! It does because sometimes we end up digging holes for ourselves and we learn via mistakes a lot.

 But, when a man tells you about a 'girlie' situation, it means  alot to him telling you about it. It doesn't mean he wants to let you know that he is a hot dude, it doesn't mean he wants to flaunt his stuff it means, he wants you to see him and see his sincerity in this relationship. I could have done it with Zion and not said a word, or come here and prove to be a saint but I didn't and I told you why I didn't because I knew I had someone I must be faithful to.

Was it easy? Nah. Ask the youngman down below, I wanted it like crazy because I know she {Bae} wouldn't succumb but self-control breaks the cord. I didn't want to hurt her instead, I sent Zion off because I have realised that there is more to a relationship than Sex. I have been taught by her.

I have faced the music squarely and I have grown to be a man that can stand! Hey ladies, we can do without Sex don't let them fool you, if a man meets a woman he really loves, he wants her but if she lays down the ''Don't Touch Me'' rules and stick to it, he will obey. Why? because he Loves her. He will wait for her, I am telling you this because I waited and I am still waiting.

So, because a Man has told you his story doesn't mean he envisaged more, or he did more than he said... He has said it, take it and listen to it. Don't probe unnecessarily, don't imagine the inconsequential or else, You will teach him to Shut Up.

To Bae : Because I know this is value... That's why I said it. We know those we value and we know those we Trash...

Learnt anything?

See ya again.

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