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           MOSES SHAIBU{Last Part Of Daddy's Journey} On a Personal Note. I wish I could turn back the hands of time, thinking and wishing all never happened to you but then, they say God has the best answer and motif for all things. I didn't understand why it happened and why the turmoil of 7years had to end with eternal departure I really don't know why mummy's hard race for your health had to come with no trophy with the microphone and a beautiful head gear like we envisioned but.. They say, God knows best. I wanted to really write the hate speech to the friends, church and family members that left you but they said as a young girl, I have to keep quiet, I should cover my life from the world. The truth is I know what I know and whether the world sees it or hears it, It has shaped me. I have learnt that nothing is good and best for a man than good health and sticking close to his loved ones. I have learnt that no one l...

                                  EX-MEN 2  To my wonderful readers, a warm morning to you wherever you might be across the globe. My last discussion about the Ex-men continues right here. This is not a sterotypic view, it's for all parts just pick the one that suits your situation.  When Mr{you can add miss if that's what applies to you} ex called and wanted to say hi, I was polite enough to give him a warm greeting, I wasn't hurt because i had moved on and it was good to hear him call again. He wanted me to hands up all that has happened while he was away. Like seriously? Who told you to go? Do i look like a broadcast station who would give a recap? Ohhhhhh Puhhhleeeezzze! No recap. Well, perhaps i did give a recap but trust me they were about the grounds I have acquired while his head was off the radar. Did...

                          TO THE EX-MEN Yayyyyyyy! It's a wonderful saturday and via popular demand I have decided to put this up today to wrap up the weekend. The discussion for the day is a stern warning to the Ex MEN all over the world. This is a story in an expounded letter form to the guilty ones. Follow closely. You walked up to me with your relationship proposal. You defended yourself and what you had strongly, i was impressed but i didn't give in immediately...I was just doing my girly thing. "I am here to stay, I love you, and look at me babe, I am so serious about this. I know where we are headed and i Know what I want. You are what I Need and all I want". Wow. I was impressed and after some intentionaly resistance which i used in analysing your stand for me, I told you Yes.  The jourmey in the first three months was so sweet and smooth. We felt like going to the al...

                     The One? {I sat on my own o... as lots of Nigerians will say}. I sat trying get the muse needed for the next writeup and some other criical  things i wanted to embark on. This is what some people will call sorting Inspiration. Yeah, I really was sorting that. My notepad at hand, handbag beside and full concentration at gear then this youngman walked up to me, muttered something like Goodafternoon but i didn't give him the air. Then, he tapped me and said Goodafternoon, I replied with a smile and moved back at my focus.  He sat beside me muttering something but i didnt give an ear because I wasn't interested. Then he tapped me. I gave him the look and asked., Please do you have a problem?. He was shocked at my word, i saw it on his face but this time around, i waited for his reply. He said No, in a gentle voice."Sister, I don't have a problem, I just wan...

                         This Music... It was a sudden move that morning when mummy called me to see the way daddy was walking. Sincerely speaking, I didn't notice any strange movement even my dad thought she was just being too inquisitive but mummy held on. So, from her room we walked through the aisle to the living room and then it happened! My daddy slumped, thank God we followed him, we ran towards him and pulled him, lay him on the couch.  Still in shock, Mummy called the nurse in my area who is also a family friend and we did the necessary. That was the beginning of the 7year Journey. He wasn't a man that falls sick, he hardly does so you can imagine how we all felt seeing him weak, immobile for so long and how it also affected him being a man of Action!  His blood pressure didn't rise at all and so we felt by the next day daddy will bounce back, So...

                       Learn,  Practice and Practice                                      To Self I know how Lazy and lackadaisical you might be, I know how insensitive you can permit yourself to act on., I know how much you excuse yourself with the environment,country and the state of the world. I know how you love to sleeeeppppppppp and wish everyone will do everything for you. This must stop and you know it. You know what you want in your head and not on the papers. I know you got pictures of different exquisite edifice for yourself but you just want to do it on the bed, Your legs have become suddenly numb and you just want to think it and not work it. You wish to be clean and pure, glowi...

The First Kiss. We do meet at the junction of my church most times and after church i just stroll and walk systematically to the jucntion, goose bumps, heart racing and then i see the man that gets me mushy again. In that cool of the evening we were walking together and talking, speaking about what i really can't remember right now but we talked and i enjoyed the time. I must confess that even though i used to feel a bit awkward that i was talking to a guy, I really don't know why but seriously, that was just how i felt then but looking at it,I was cool with him and we were cool too...{on his side}.   After the talk and i was almost approaching my house, we stayed a bit at the junction and we tallked for a while, we waited and we just couldn't leave ourselves, i didn't even want to go anyways. We stayed and hugged, and then hugged and hugged.... and we left.{Fill in the gap} Would you believe that when i got home i sent a message"thanking him for the kiss...