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   Monday Blues....         Letter to the Man in charge Excuse me sir,  I hope your day is going on well even though mine isn't and the reason? I will certainly share with you. Let me ask you some questions, I don't need to be all care and friendly because this is a serious matter at hand. Do you drive? Does your car run on water or on Fuel? Please I need sincere answers sir!. It's pathetic that I have to stay on an unending queue to get fuel to run my car knowing that we have no special reserves to take us out on monday. Maybe car makers should start making three to four fuel tanks for some cars coming to some countries e.g Nigeria. I am so fed up of the way things are done in this country. They told us that we have Oil and we still suffer for what we have, are you sure those that discovered these things discovered well? I am sick and tired of speculations if we sincerely have, how come we suffer so much to own what we have? Who else is in ...

                               Shoga's Palace!                                This unnecessary Anger By Women Happy New Year My People! It's so good to be here and of cos, welcome to Shoga's segment now named, Shoga's Palace . Don't ask me about the change of name but I can tell you about the new concept behind this. I am the King in this palace and you all are my Chiefs. We are going to talk about so many issues pertaining Relationships and how Women behave in this century. I am sure you know you are in for a swell time. So, let's dig it now. Every man can relate with this topic and this is, T he way Women get mad when things aren't working their way . Before Christmas, I spoke with bae and asked her to make plans on what she wants to do and how she wants to go about it, in the usual manner, She said, she hasn't made her...

                   Tales of a Working  Mom                                       No Baby Till Later This new year I decided to talk to Mr Husband about the struggles I have been through and still going through as a working mom. I have two kids and husband is thinking about pregnancy, don't let me deceive you, I am not doing anything. I am not ready to go through that route at all. I see the way he looks and his actions, he is not happy about it but I cannot stress myself. I work and take care of the kids all alone, my maid has left and getting a maid now is very tedious. We have not set the records straight so we are not having a deal. Don't tell me about being gentle, I am really very gentle about this but I cannot kill myself for myself. You might think that I am being ungrateful because some peeps want to me in my shoes, my dear, ma...

                                                     Self pity isn't the answer. 2017 Struggles { That Adejoke's Story} The struggles were too much for her to bear alone, she wanted her story to change but as much as she tried, nothing was happening. She could move no further. She decided to try her hands on some buying and selling but that wasn't enough though it gave her money to fund a lot of things. Money came through but she wasn't happy. 'Would you try this one or try that?' she laid her hands on every possible thing she could find. 'I don't want to be seen as an unserious person, I know where my mates are at least if she doesn't remind herself, some people will remind her or social media will remind her' Dara is in America on scholarship, Nkechi works with a Multinational company, Fumi is a technocrat and she is earning lots of money'. Adejoke...

                                       2017 Struggles...'Adejoke's {Me} Story' Happy New Year my readers, It's so great to see a New Year and I know it's going to be a great phase for you all. Now, I am guilty for abandoning my writings and I assure you that this year is going to be very different, you will have more consistent juicy topics to engage in and also the board will become bigger as writers will come on board. It's going to be a magnificent 2018! You will enjoy this. So, let's start afresh this year. Before I begin to write, I want to share a story with you. This is the story that connects with almost everyone and even with me... This is going to be a better year and I know you will experience everything new, poise, and top notch! Adejoke had great plans when 2017 started off, she wrote her goals, she gave her stakes, she knew who to call and who to call on her board. ...

              Shoga's Bae Most Women Have Met Their Husbands SideChicks  Dear Shoga and other men around the world,have you ever noticed how much a woman tries to understand the risks you guys take when it can be avoided? Have you ever wondered when a woman sees a man and asks do you really need to do that? Is it necessary to talk about it? Is it necessary to go for it? We love men that are daring, I mean, Daring on purpose not men that are Too Curious. Curiosity kills the Rabbit remember? Excuse me sir, why would you want to tamper with what doesn't have your label imprinted on it? why? So, if every man sees a woman that is very daring and decides to pursue her, how many men would have fell for the other woman? No wonder there are too many side chics in this world. The men go looking for them and fall prey and then, sister side chick will decide not to leave her land of refuge! Who caused it? The curious man. If you know nothing can s...

   Shoga                                We Know Those We Trash  Hey Guys,  It's good to be here again and Yes! I got the mails. Is That your bae for real? Is the corner going to be for Shoga and Bae? Yes! The corner is going to be for Shoga and bae. Shoga's bae replies to my talk and I reply to hers. Don't crush  on her dude, It's not easy managing a woman as strict as that. {I didn't write this part} ☺Okay! Let me go to my gist.  I read what Shoga's bae wrote about me and she said something about Good girls falling in Love with Bad boys and I am like, what makes a man,  A Man and what makes him Good or Bad ?  When a woman sees a man that is genuine she feels some kinda way, she thinks he is 'good'  especially if he is genuinely gentle and straightforward and when he is genuinely the opposite? They call him 'Bad'.  They {women} like rough men ...

       Monday Blues                                              I need A Maid {Life of a Working Mum} My name is Omolade from Nigeria, and I am a married  woman. I have two lovely children and I must say, I love my family. My husband works with a oil and gas company and has been transferred to Delta state but he tries to be visit us at least Thrice in a month. He loves his family so well and I am hoping that he gets transferred back to Lagos soonest, We are working on it though. I work with a Real Estate firm in Lagos, a very big one and I work as the Assistant Director. My director is always on the move, always travelling here and there so the bulk of the work lies on me. I am a mother and that can be so difficult. The distance from my house to the office on a sunday evening{ A typical Nigerian, knows I mean a day without traffic } Is les...

                        Events With Onozasie. My waka waka{going out for events}has brought me to another exciting chapter that I will like to share with you. So, welcome aboard as I review another intriguing and interesting event with you. Pastor {Mrs} Bola Akinlabi This happened last saturday, Lagos, Nigeria and it was organised by the Female arm of a giant growing church in Lagos, The Elevation Church . For a lot of persons in Lagos, you will know that, that place is a good source for one to grow spiritually, mentally to enhance and build a confident level of appearance. So, this particular event was tagged ' Made For More' . It was a two-day event but I only attended on Saturday because of work and the distance most importantly. Which means, I am only going to talk about the Saturday event. The Made For More event was a session or let me say, an atmosphere for women both young and old to be charged to understand w...

            Shoga's Babe                                       Dating That 'Bad' Guy I have decided to take a chance off Mr Shoga this time around. For newcomers, Mr Shoga is my ' boo' we have something and at the same time, I tackle what I feel is not necessary on his part. Shoga has  a way of feeling like he has everything kempt and prim when it comes to a relationship. Well, he's been a good guy but trust me he has been a badddddddddddddd guy to some ladies. Secretly, I have this fear that something might come up some day, like a revenge plan from one the girls he has cheated on and broken but I pray they all move well and fast in life that they forget him totally. So, Let me speak about the fears of dating a man that has once been a 'bad guy' and now has a good girl and has decided to turn a new leaf. Girls in my category will know that this i...

         Events With Onozasie  Hey Guys, It is good to have you here once again. I am adding a new juice to the content. This juice is a review of events attended by moi. Yeah! I will like to share what I learnt, what I unlearnt. This is also going to be a platform to remind you of events that are coming up so you can attend and learn. Not every event is as expensive as we think, some are free so you can't blame money for tying you down. Welcome, once again. L{Subomi Plumptre} SL{Mrs Ihotu Gregory, Founder, Jewels Network} Middle{Nnanke Esien} R{Padebi Ojomo} I attended the Social Media MasterClass  event Last friday and I must confess I had a swelllllll time. Let me inform you that I didn't even know about this event but my good friend Beauty, told me about it and advised me to register. kkkrrriiiiiiggggggga! I registered and I am glad I did because I met great people and learnt great things, I mean,what else would you learn from great speak...

                     Shoga!          something romantically different So I am going to continue my Zion's story and in case you have not been following, check the older posts right here.  Zion and I spoke that night and she asked if I were a single man. The moment of truth and the same moment of doubts. That moment when you want to say the truth but the flesh is eating you up. Some sort of dirty kinda curiosity keeps you launching into the deepest part of whatever happens... happens!  Zion : So, are you single? Shoga : Errr... Zion : I wouldn't expect a badass guy like you to be single? Shoga : Well, you are kinda right. I am not single Zion : Hmmm. So, how old is the relationship? Shoga : 7months.  Zion : Kinda young Shoga : {Laughs} yeah Zion : Do you want to marry her? Shoga : Yes. She's a good woman Zion : In bed? In the kitchen or in words? Shoga : {Laughs...

                             Sip tHis Coffee With Onozasie This is the moment where we turn the lights on magnificient individuals. People doing great things in the society, entrepreneurs, social activists, initiatives masterminds. We bring them here to share their story, to push you to doing something and to make you know that it is never too late to get started. You are welcome aboard! Guess who is sipping our coffee today? It's Miss Modupeoluwa Babawale. She is the founder of Nirvana Initiative. You want to know more, let's ride along! Miss Modupe Babawale. Founder, Nirvana Initiative. Onozasie : Tell us something about you  Modupeoluw a :  My name is Modupe Babawale, second child out of 4 children. My dad is a medical doctor and my mum is a high school teacher, biology major. I studied Bsc Biochemistry At Bowen University, Iwo Osun state and Msc Biotechnology (specializing in molecular h...

                                             WhO's oN tHe SpOt Hello people. You are welcome to another exciting edition of the Spot! This is a platform where you get to read inspiring stories of people doing great things. Either in business, education, career, music, arts. whatever it is, you find it here. They share their stories to inspire you and get you on the move. Today! We have another inspiring businesswoman. An entrepreneur and a plus size model. She is taking our coffee today. Trust me, you will love it. So, guess who we have on the spot? Guess....Guess.... Okay! Let me help you.  On the spot today, we have Miss Regina Agada💃💃💃 Yaay! she's taking our coffee.  Enjoy the smooth ride. Miss Regina Agada Onozasie : Tell us something personal. Regina : My name is Regina Agada a plus size model and an entrepreneur and I love to live. Onozasie ...

  Shoga!                                         It's 7o'clock From where we stopped.  You see, I have a girlfriend. I love her and I really do not want to cheat on her. I am looking at future for us but this girl! This particular Zion babe is stretching my lens. She is making me think outta the box. As a faithful guy. I decided to call my girlfriend. Listen to us. Shoga Calls : Hey sweetie, how are you? Bae : I am good. And you? Shoga : I am good too. I miss you. when should we hangout? Bae : Hey! I am busy. There's no way we can do that. Shoga : Sneak a hour or two babe. I even need to talk to you Bae : You have started yeah?. This is how you want to steal my time from me. See, get busy and we'll do this some other time. We spoke about it, didn't we? Shoga : We did now, but! Okay then. I understand. Bae :{Laughs} That's why I love you. I promi...